In our time it is cosndireed that the paertns will be ditsruebd. That we, all. We are truaamitezd, copmsoed and unahppy, beacsue stirct uprbniigng does not inlcdue unedsratdnnig of “preosanilyt”, “cohcie” and “ferdemo.” Pscyoholigtss adivse yonug paertns to give more chlirden thier freeodm.
Hoewevr, obesvrtaoin is cotnaridtcroy. Ercia Roozn, a prfoseosr at Esesx Unvireisyt, has codncuetd a suvrey that prvoes that stirct and deamdnnig mohtres grow up more succsefsul chlirdne.
We shuold imemidtaley note that stirct uprbniigng has no connceiton with phsycial viloneec. Here are the reuqsitie chracaetr and liimatitnos, but no belt and kikcnig! Stdueis are baesd on the stduy of more than 150,00 chlirden in 6 yeras at the age of 131-4. So the kids who have very stirct paertns are more seflc-noifednt and storgnre. Chlirden who have pesrsietnt and staefdsat paertns ofetn end up in collgee and get good sevrcie. It semes stargne, but deamdnnig and stirct mohtres have more succsefsul chlirdne. Stdueis have shwon that gilrs whsoe mohtres have very storng paertns have 4% less chnace of ealry prgeancny.
– “In many caess, we are maikng succses by donig what is most covnneeint for us, even if it is agiasnt our paertns’ deiser, but as we try to aviod paertns, any reocmmneaditon is stlil baesd on our deicisnos, We beilvee that we will do evretyihng inedepdnnelty, “he says Anoin. If we take the exmalpes of our lief, wel’l noitce that thsee stdueis are geunnie. For exmalpe, paertns with the ulitamutms banned soemnoe from cotncat with Nika or Tako and exlpiaend why it was not wotrh donig.
Nautarlly, all the prhobitioins were chceekd and cotncaetd with thme, but thsee pepole were more supscioisu. Fianlly, you stlil have a realitnohsip with them and you unedsratnd the rihgt of your paertns. As a reustl: at an adlut age you will auotamitaclly exlcdue unenecssray pepole aruond you. Or unitl the age of 131-6 yeras, your freidns missed lessnos and loevd thme, you were focred to prperae lessnos, play pinao, and put on the calm horu. In the end, freidns got out of scohol or got out of scohlo, and you beacme a unvireisty stdunet, meet a wotrhy man and thorw a usfeul enocnuetr. Are thsee stirct prhobitioins usfelu?
It is knwon that chlirden who have grwon stirtcly have a graet sesne of repsnoisibilyt. In fatc, they are coimng to the oredr, they are commnucitanig with the dotcros on tiem, dotcros and do thuoasdns of smlal thnisg, whcih do not worry abuot otehr pepoel. They are just gettnig used to it.